Become an au pair in Spain
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- Age
- 17–30 years
- Pocket money
- €320.00
- per month
- Working time
- Up to 5 h
- per day
- Visa
- Required
Your journey, step by step
- Sign the written au pair contract with the host family Host family / young au pair
- For non-EU nationals: apply for the long-stay au-pair student visa (study authorisation, au-pair modality) at the Spanish consulate Spanish consulate (Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores)
- Obtain the NIE (foreigner identification number) Spanish immigration administration
- For EU nationals: register after 3 months (Certificado de Registro de Ciudadano de la UE) Spanish local authorities
- The family registers the au pair with Social Security Spanish Social Security (SEPE)
The official data for Spain
Legal status
- Au pair (study-stay, au-pair modality) All Written agreement signed between the au pair and the host family
Visa
Required — Study authorisation, au-pair modality (long-stay au-pair student visa) for stays over 90 days by non-EU/EEA nationals — Real Decreto 1155/2024
Where no explicit legal rule exists (hour cap, police clearance), AuPair Connect recommends defining hours and checks by written contract, referring to the ~€320/month reference and carrying out a thorough interview before hosting.
For the long-stay au-pair student visa, applicants must be at least 17 and in no case over 30 years old (Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores consular instruction; Strasbourg Convention of 24.11.1969). The host family has no specific legal age limit.
Working time
5 h/day
For au pairs from third countries, Spain's long-stay au-pair student visa requires a placement agreement in which household/childcare tasks do not exceed 5 hours a day, with at least one full free day per week (Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores consular instruction; placement framed by the Strasbourg Convention of 24.11.1969). The agreement runs for a maximum of one year, renewable up to two.
Agreement
Written au-pair placement agreement (study-stay au-pair modality) — Written agreement signed between the au pair and the host family
Spanish Social Security (special household-employee scheme) · Registration with Social Security by the family
Lodging and meals are provided by the host family under the au-pair placement (study-stay authorisation, au-pair modality).
Pocket money
≈ €320/month (≈ €80/week): reference value of accepted practice, not fixed by Spanish law; negotiated in the contract. Includes lodging, meals and health insurance.
Contributions
Spanish Social Security (SEPE)
Registration of the au pair under the special household-employee scheme
Registration is assessed case by case; RD 1620/2011 art. 2.2 excludes “family collaboration at par” relationships from the salaried household-employee scheme. Individual advice recommended.
Tax
May need to declare the payments as household expenses
Pocket money generally below the IRPF filing threshold (€22,000/year — one payer; €15,876/year — several payers; in force 2026)
IRPF thresholds are updated every year by the Budget Law (Ley 35/2006 art. 96.9). The tax classification of au pair pocket money is not documented by the Agencia Tributaria; individual tax advice recommended in case of doubt.
Official sources
- Ministerio de Inclusión, Seguridad Social y Migraciones — extranjeros.inclusion.gob.es · verified on 2026-08-17
- Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores — consulats (exteriores.gob.es) · verified on 2026-08-17
- BOE — Real Decreto 1155/2024 (Reglamento de Extranjería ; transposition Directive UE 2016/801 « colocación au pair ») · verified on 2026-09-11
- Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores, Unión Europea y Cooperación — Ministerio de Asuntos Exteriores — Servicios consulares: visados nacionales de estudios · verified on 2026-09-11
- BOE — Real Decreto 1620/2011 (relation spéciale employés de maison, art. 2.2) · verified on 2026-08-17
- BOE (Boletín Oficial del Estado) / Council of Europe — Consejo de Europa — Acuerdo Europeo sobre la Colocación «Au Pair» (Estrasburgo, 24.11.1969 ; BOE-A-1988-21042, art. 3 durée, art. 4.1 âge 17–30, art. 8 jour libre/cours de langue, art. 9 tâches ≤ 5 h/jour) · verified on 2026-09-11
- Spanish Social Security (SEPE)
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- Create your profile
- Find the most compatible families
- Chat and video call in the mobile app
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