Everyday life guides
Practical, people-first guides so cohabitation, departures and learning French go smoothly for au pairs and host families alike.
Host family handbook
House rules (meals, kitchen, guests, screens, keys, emergencies) to set from day one, with a free downloadable PDF.
Download the handbook ↗Rematch & handling conflicts
What to do when things don't work out with your host family: kindly mediation, written notice, and changing families mid-stay.
Explore the guide ↗Au pair agency: fees & licences
What an au pair agency really does, what it costs, how to check it is licensed, and when an agency is legally mandatory (US J-1).
Read the guide ↗Au pair vs nanny
The real difference: legal status, pay, hours and cultural value, with a total-cost calculator and a risk-mitigation checklist.
Read the guide ↗How to find an au pair
The three channels, safety vs classifieds, what a trustworthy profile and profile video should show, the red flags to refuse and the vetting checklist before you sign.
Read the guide ↗How much does an au pair cost?
The real total cost: pocket money, board and lodging, social charges, agency vs direct matching and the tax rules, country by country with a TCO calculator.
Read the guide ↗Au pair eligibility in Canada
Who qualifies for Canada (and who does not): IEC bilateral agreement by nationality, ages, quotas and alternatives for ineligible profiles. Verified IRCC facts.
Read the guide ↗Resources & contracts
Contract templates, pocket money, Urssaf and administrative steps: the legal and practical Cluster 2 guides.
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Verified stories from au pairs and host families: what worked, what was hard, and how to travel with peace of mind.
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