Host an au pair in Italy
The verified guide to host an au pair in Italy.
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- Age
- 18–30 years
- Pocket money
- €280.00 to €600.00
- per month
- Visa
- Required
Your hosting journey, step by step
- Draft and sign a written agreement detailing hours, tasks, pocket money and lodging Host family / young au pair
- For non-EU/EEA nationals: apply for a long-stay visa (type D) at the Italian consulate Italian consulate abroad
- Check the registration / residence-permit procedure (permesso di soggiorno) depending on the administrative situation Questura / integration portal
Your host-family obligations · Italy
Legal status
- Au pair (collocamento alla pari — bilateral-agreement states only) All Private written agreement between the au pair and the host family
Visa
Required — Long-stay visa (type D) for stays over 90 days by non-EU/EEA nationals
EU/EEA nationals may stay freely (registration and residence permit after 3 months). Non-EU/EEA nationals must obtain a long-stay visa (type D) from the Italian consulate for a stay longer than 90 days.
No legal au-pair age limit in Italy (no programme exists); accepted practice follows the international 18–30 years range.
Working time
Italy has no dedicated au-pair visa or working-hours rule: a cultural-exchange stay relies on the written contract, and reliable contacts recommend defining hours and tasks clearly.
Agreement
Written private agreement — Written contract / agreement signed between the au pair and the host family
Questura / police prefecture depending on the administrative situation
Lodging and meals provided by the host family are a common practice not enshrined in any dedicated au-pair status.
Pocket money
No au-pair pocket-money amount is set by Italian law (the programme does not exist formally). Accepted practice generally ranges between €70 and €150 per week (≈ €280–600 per month), board & lodging included — an amount to negotiate and put in writing.
Contributions
Host family
Private cultural-exchange agreement (outside an employment contract)
As Italy has no official au-pair status, no specific contribution scheme applies; the family provides lodging, meals and pocket money within the private agreement.
Tax
No specific tax advantage for hosting an au pair
Modest pocket money with board & lodging, generally outside the scope of income taxation
The Italian private agreement stays below an employment relationship; the exact tax classification of pocket money is not documented by the Amministrazione Finanziaria. Individual tax advice recommended in case of doubt.
Official sources
- Ministero degli Affari Esteri e della Cooperazione Internazionale — Visti per l'Italia — Portail officiel des visas du Ministère des Affaires étrangères · verified on 2026-09-11
- Ministero dell'Interno — Immigration (integrazionemigranti.gov.it) · verified on 2026-09-11
- Ambasciata d'Italia Brasilia — Ambasciata d'Italia a Brasilia — Tipi di visto di lunga durata (type D) · verified on 2026-09-11
- Ministero del Lavoro e delle Politiche Sociali — cliclavoro.gov.it — Come fare per lavorare alla pari (Accord de Strasbourg / loi 304/1973) · verified on 2026-09-11
- Lexia Avvocati (source secondaire de contrôle) — Italianvisa (Lexia Avvocati) — Visto per il collocamento alla pari (liste États à accord bilatéral) · verified on 2026-09-11
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