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Find your trusted au pair

The first marketplace combining identity verification and intelligent compatibility scoring to connect host families and au pairs with peace of mind.

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App screen: au pair profiles ranked by compatibility score. App screen: end-to-end encrypted conversation between a family and an au pair. App screen: identity verification details on a profile.

Reserve my spot See an example profile How it works (3 steps)

  • Verified contact point
  • Voluntary KYC certification (VIP)
  • Certified reviews
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Voluntary VIP KYC (Stripe Identity)
End-to-end encrypted messaging
Launch Access

3 months of unlimited messaging

The first 200 families and the first 500 au pairs to sign up get 3 months of unlimited messaging, as soon as their profile is 100 % complete. No subscription, no card.

First 200 families
Profile 100 % complete
First 500 au pairs
Profile 100 % complete
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Why AuPair Connect?

A radically different approach to au pair matching.

30s Video Profiles

See before you contact. Every profile includes a 30-second introduction video for an authentic first impression.

Compatibility Score

Our algorithm evaluates fit across 5 criteria: parenting style, schedules, chores, driving, and dietary needs.

Certified profiles

Au pairs ready to help

Every profile has a verified contact point. Au pairs can go further with a voluntary VIP KYC certification — identity and background validated via Stripe Identity, with a green "Certified" badge shown publicly once passed.

94% compatible KYC verified

Sarah, 22

Austria

Loves kids, 4 years of babysitting, permaculture.

🍳 Cooking 🚗 Driver English
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88% compatible KYC verified

Lucas, 21

France

Psychology student, camp counselor.

⚽ Sport Spanish 🧩 Activities
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91% compatible KYC verified

Elena, 23

Spain

Great with kids, theater, Mediterranean cooking.

🎨 Arts French 🐶 Pets
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How it works

3 simple steps to find your ideal au pair.

1

Create your profile

Family or au pair, create your profile in minutes with your introduction video.

2

Match by compatibility

Our algorithm suggests the most compatible profiles for your search.

3

Communicate securely

Encrypted messaging for a stress-free experience.

Understand, compare, travel with peace of mind

Clear, independent guidance to choose with confidence.

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How au pairs work The full lifecycle: search, interview, agreement and stay.
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France au pair visa Requirements and paperwork to go to France.
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Our safety approach Verified profiles and voluntary KYC checks.
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Real au pair stories Host families and au pairs share their experience.
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Site comparison Alternatives vs AuPair Connect on real criteria.
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Our cities at a glance

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AuPairConnect Certified

Verified profiles, no bad surprises

Every profile relies on a systematically verified contact point. The green "Certified" badge displays publicly only once the voluntary KYC (reserved for VIP members) has been validated: identification via Stripe Identity, proof of address and, depending on the country, a criminal record extract.

1. Verified contact point

Email address or Google-connected phone, verified for every profile.

2. Voluntary KYC (VIP)

Identity via Stripe Identity, proof of address and criminal record check depending on the country.

3. "Certified" badge

Displays publicly only once the KYC has been validated.

Every certified profile is promoted more prominently to reassure families.

Certification remains strictly voluntary — no member is ever required to use it.

Your personal data is protected under GDPR. Since KYC certification is voluntary, your identity documents are only processed if you choose to use it.

AuPairConnect certification process

Step 1 — Verified contact point

  • Email address or Google-connected phone
  • Verified contact point for every profile at sign-up
  • Contact-point verification is systematic and non-optional

Step 2 — Voluntary KYC (VIP)

  • Identity verification via Stripe Identity
  • Proof of address depending on the country
  • Criminal record extract depending on the country

Step 3 — "Certified" badge

  • Displays publicly only after validated KYC
  • Certified profiles promoted more prominently
  • Members are encouraged, never obliged
Voluntary and reserved for VIP members
GDPR compliant — you control your data
Stripe Identity standard for verification
SSL/TLS 1.3 · Encrypted

Your conversations stay private and secure

Built-in messaging and video calls, designed fraud-first. The final trust lock before you meet.

GDPR · Data hosted in the EU

Encrypted messaging

  • AES-256 end-to-end encryption
  • No one reads your messages — not us, not hackers, not third parties
  • Real-time anti-scam filtering
  • Auto-blocking of phone numbers / emails in early exchanges

In-app video calls

  • Video calls directly in the app — no Zoom needed
  • No phone number shared
  • Number masking on by default
  • Recording disabled — privacy first

Reporting & moderation

  • “Report” button on every message
  • Algorithmic detection of suspicious behaviour
  • Zero tolerance — immediate ban in severe cases

Your safety is not a feature. It’s our foundation.

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Share & Unlock

Invite 2 families, get priority access

Share your link. Once 2 families complete their profile through your link, you move to the top of the waitlist and unlock 3 free contact passes.