Sara B. (Colombia → France): pocket money, the real story
Sara explains the gap between the advert (“generous” pocket money) and the real contract. Her lesson: compare every clause to the official source and ask precise questions before signing.
Lyon, France · 7 months
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The advert promised pocket money “on a scale”. The contract listed a figure well below the official source.
She learned to read the board-and-lodging rule: lodging and meals never REPLACE pocket money — they add to it.
By asking the right question, she renegotiated before leaving, based on the regulatory text.
Pocket money in France
€326.25–391.50/month board & lodging included (EU/EEA, foreign family-aid trainee) · €320/month minimum (non-EU/EEA, young au pair).
✔ The Compliance Team verified on 2026-09-13 · official data
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Before signing, compare the contract amount to the country’s official source: lodging and meals never replace minimum pocket money.
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