Emma R. (USA → France): paid to live in Paris — and what it really cost
Emma shares the real budget of an au-pair year in Paris: board-and-lodging pocket money, free time, French classes. Proof that the “dream job” is real — if you get a clear contract before you leave.
Paris, France · 9 months
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“The advert promised €300 + room + meals. I asked for the exact amount in writing before I left.”
The Parisian families respected her free time — two extra paid babysitting evenings aside. That changed how she thinks about pocket money.
She saved enough to fund a study scholarship: the au-pair stay became a springboard, not a pause.
Pocket money in France
€326.25–391.50/month board & lodging included (EU/EEA, foreign family-aid trainee) · €320/month minimum (non-EU/EEA, young au pair).
✔ The Compliance Team verified on 2026-09-13 · official data
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